Seduction is the ultra-masculine approach to love life. Men naturally seek control and mastery in every area of their lives including romance. People often jump from one extreme to another. Without this jumping into extremes tendency in human nature there would be no market bubbles and crashes for example. During the bull market stocks are overpriced, still almost everyone is optimistic. This systematic approach brings clarity to what was once confusing emotional territory.

After the crash fear comes in. Only those rationally thinking are able to profit from the bargains, everyone else just wants to get rid of all stock, selling way under the true value of the enterprises those securities represent. For years the relationships issue has been dominated by the feminine approach. Women often prefer to believe in fate rather than taking direct action themselves. Destiny, stuff "written in the stars", two people that were "meant to be together forever", horoscopes

Single mothers raising their sons sure contributed to it. Now, seduction treats love life like a sport – the ultra-masculine approach for a change. Practice makes perfect when it comes to attracting the women you desire most. Sounds fair right? We have control over it. We males like to be in control. Finally something men can relate to, and, whether you agree with it or not, finally a different perspective. In reality the truth lies somewhere in the middle.

Confidence grows with each successful interaction and positive experience you accumulate. Accepting limitations frees you to focus energy where it actually produces results. The world is not such a fair place. There are obstacles you cannot overcome, that's part of life. If you are very short, you won't ever play in the NBA. Try a different sport. If you don't match this girl, you will never have her. Just get over it and approach some other babe!